Tuesday 25 March 2014

Kesuburan wanita

Ok sejujurnya susah jadi org perempuan...susah je bukan maksudnya saya tak bersyukur ye...

Bersyukur♥♥♥ sangat2 pd Allah swt....tanggungjawap sebagai seorg isteri n ibu insya allah saya akan jalankan dgn semana kemampuan saya...

Hehe..ada but nya tau...nak maintain kejelitaan utk suami tu mak aihh....Subhanallah. ...

Nak kena jaga badan...makan segala macam benda...berurut lagi kalau rasa sakit pinggang..maksudnya kedudukan rahim tak betul....

Sabar banyak2 wahai kaum wanita sekalian ye....jaga luar dan dlm penting.....hehe

Penjagaan badan yg terbaik;

1. Bersenam...of cos la....no rocket science...

2. Makan sayur....like  a lot..

3. Drink lots of water....plain not sweet k...and not cold ....cold drink with ice is no-no....nnt badan sakit2...pfftt....

4. Amalkan mkan madu....bagus utk badan...

5. Susu  HL...high in acid folic...

6. Multivitamin n...lotsa supplements. ...nie kena tanya doc tau...toksah nk memandai k...kang makin sakit pulak...

7. Last but not least doa pd Allah swt ...moga diberikan kesihatan terbaik...insya allah..

Kalau rasa mcm tak sedap badan...gi la berurut k...insya allah. ..badan rasa sedap...hihi


Friday 14 March 2014

Happy sikit

Allah swt tahu hati ku yg tgh berduka lagi.

Asy balik pra sekolah pun senyum lebar bila sampai umah. Bila tgk muka mamanya mesti tanya knp mata mama merah?

Sedih la sayang oi.  Setiap yg Allah swt beri kita terima dgn hati yg terbuka.

Redha n sabar. Insya allah semua akan ok.

Husband keje hujung minggu pun kita sabar. Rezeki Allah yg beri.

Hari ni jiran jemput dtg umah dia ahad ni. Anaknya kawin kata nya. Dia tanya cuti ke? Taklah saya tak sihat. Malas nk terus terang. Dia tgk muka kita pun mcm nk tanya lebih2 tapi tak tertanya pun. Alhamdulilah tak yah nk explain lebih2 kan.

Asy tertidur dah. Dia seronok sebenarnya mak nya ddk umah. Teruk sgt ke taska yg dia pergi? Tapi kena keje jugak kan. Banyak komitmen dan tanggungjawap.

Seronok tak dinafikan langsung dduk umah ni. Sunyi. Leh baca buku n skhabar. Surf internet. Part yg paling best dapat jaga Asy.

Ya Allah, aku terima qada n qadar yg tlh ditentukan. Amin ya rabbalalamin.


Thursday 13 March 2014

MH370

Semoga SAR team akan menemui semula pesawat mas ini dengan izin Allah swt


Wednesday 12 March 2014

Husband

Note to myself:

At 33 years & 4 months old, I thankful and bless with a wonderful husband.

For every woman out there who is single please pray hard to Allah swt you will get a wonderful muslim man who love u just the way you are.

When I was young, never in a million years that I dreams or I have this feeling that I want to get married or let alone have kids.

But Allah swt has chosen for me the best man who accept me just the way I am.

Not to say that I am not nice but as a woman with lots of hormone and temper well, thankfully it tone down with age.

Nevertheless, ayang, I ♥ you forever. No words can even the describe the sacrifice you make for me and our kids. Apperciate it so much. Hopefully you feel the same way about me too.

Sometimes I tend not to show this lovey dovey feeling but I love u so much ......muah!


Monday 10 March 2014

Feeling better

After following strict confinement period by eating right and rest myself I feel great and happy.

After dnc I felt in so much pain. Kak hawa came to my house and massage me for 3 days. Gave me air kunyit plus honey, drink  for 3 days. I feel good. Even my husband notice that I look much better.

So im looking forward to start working again after seeing the doc on the 15th day after dnc. Hopefully everything is ok and we can proceed with our plan, insya allah. .amin


Sunday 9 March 2014

D&C

The chronology of my pregnancy until the day I done the dnc. To be honest, the reason why I write this as a way to heal myself. As well as to help others who are in the same position as I am right now.
We went for holiday for one week in month of January 2014. We went back to Pekan, Pahang and Penang.
It was a pleasant and happy holiday. We enjoy ourselves. To cut long story short, I found out I'm pregnant after my period didn't came on January 6th, 2014.
I didn't have any morning sickness which doctor said it is a blessed.  But for me its important to have strong morning sickness as it shows how pregnant we are.
I went to scan when I am 5 weeks pregnant,  doc said she cannot see the baby yet cos it's too small.
Went again to scan on 7 weeks. See the kantung but no bby inside. Doc said maybe the bby still small. By this time I already felt sceptical with myself and I know, the baby is not growing as it should.
On the 1 & 2 March 2014, our weekend is quite busy with birthday party and engagement.  By monday I felt so tired but went to work anyway. At 3 o'clock see some spotting and immediately informed my boss that I want to go home due to my condition.
I went to the clinic to scan again and the doc informed me that the kantung is empty with no fetal pole. I accept the condition and went home to wait for my husband.
That night went to pusrawi, kajang and the obgyn confirmed that we lost the baby.
Dnc was done on 4th mar 2014. Everything went well and we go home at 5 pm.
As of now...in confinement on 6th day. Luckily mu husband help me out with household chores.
Below is last scan on 3rd mar 2014.
Be strong! Allah swt knows what is the best for us..amin.

Copyright to Shal Wa
Designed by UMIESUEstudio 2014